If you are committed to true union, speak the truth and confront what arises as a team, thereby resolving the issue & quite possibly creating an indivisible union. Otherwise, your silence poisons your relationship. . .

Truth is a gift you give to the other person involved out of respect and gratitude for what you have both shared together—AND it’s also a gift you give to yourself out of self-respect and true self-love. . .

Here is the thing about the truth: you can postpone, postpone, postpone, but the inevitable is inevitable. The truth will eventually be revealed in one way or another, or the lies will slowly chip away at your spirit whether you acknowledge it or not. . .

MAKE LOVE, not war.

Anything that does not bring you closer together, regardless of the initial trigger or reaction is just a waste of precious time. . .

If you know yourself and your patterns, and therefore, you know that what is best for you in that moment is taking a time out, you are setting a boundary. This is high level self-care and self-love.

Sometimes we put too much pressure on our partners to fulfill us, when in reality, it’s not their job...