Love Notes π€ Congruency of Character
Masculine or feminine, if your partner is not sovereign, self-sourced, and in their power, they will fall prey to the Jezebel energetic (i.e. third party interference).
How much your partner loves you becomes irrelevant when he/she is not fully embodied in their power or unable to access their voice, and therefore unable to say no or speak their truth (π©). It doesnβt matter how much they might love and care for you or want to be with you. They are powerless when they are unable to align to their inner authority, and so they outsource their power. Similarly, if they have not mastered their ego, ultimately their insecurities and weakness run the show.
So while you may be shocked and surprised at their behavior, these patterns were present from the beginning if you observed how they conducted themselves in all aspects of their life. When someone continually betrays themselves, they will eventually betray you.